When time permits, naps usually take place.
Sometimes when I nap, I pass from sleep state, into rem state. I know the feeling when I pass through that veil, and go somewhere else for a little while.
I felt the shift happen. And my mind lit up like a Christmas tree. I have never had a dream, like the one I had this evening. It was the most erotic dream I’ve ever had. It was totally of a topic I’ve never thought about, or concerned myself with for myself.
And I don’t usually write this kind of “sex charged” kind of material in open community. But If I don’t write it down now, I will forget it in an hour.
I was visiting friends, and everyone was having a good time. And we found, underneath the mattress in a bedroom, items that one does not usually have around the house, unless of course you were into that kind of kink.
Kink … is my middle name …
If you visit the kink side of life, in either the gay world or the straight world, kink is a thing, for some it is a way of life, some more than others.
Men and women do all kinds of kinky things, alone or together.
Male Chastity is a kink I am familiar with. I have watched it come into being, a while back, and at one point, chastity was all the rage in gay circles. Even the kinky straight people were getting in on the game. There are tons of straight kink sites who offer chastity devices.
Nothing like a kinky mistress to lock up her mans cock, so only she can enjoy it, and deny him the ability to touch it himself or get off …
It’s a great way to STOP a man from touching himself, for short periods of time, for long periods of time, and for the hard core players … To once and for all deny someone their dick FOREVER.
This does take place. I’ve seen straight couples do it, and I’ve seen some intrepid gay men do it too. All you need is a tube of epoxy, or a rivet gun. You can disable a lock permanently with epoxy or to rivet the lock permanently LOCKED !!!
Then You Are Fucked !!!
I don’t ever write about sexual topics here, but the dream continues.
I found a chastity device I thought was attractive, and I took the time it takes to actually put one on, sans the locking device. We were all joking around having a good time, and one of my friends walked up behind me and put a lock on my device. It’s hard to fight when there are more of them then there are of you.
Now I’m locked in this device, with no way out of it.
One of my favorite kink dealerships, offers a Platinum Key Agreement for $175.00 in the domestic U.S. Market. You buy your device and the additional $175.00 plan, and they send you your kit, along with return UPS envelope and your agreement that you fill out and sign. You send the pack back to them, WITH your keys, and you are off on your own adventure.
They will execute your plan as you desire. And will only return your keys when the time has been served. And not a day before…
Sadly, this Platinum service is not available in Canada. You’d have to find another human who will do the job, sans the $175.00 fee.
Anyways, where was I ?
Oh yes, Chastity.
The dream went on and on, for what seemed a long time. It’s almost a badge of courage if you take the plunge and actually lock yourself up. And to have someone who is equally as involved as you are.
Then I found myself in a forest, in the setting of a VR game. (VR-Vitual Reality). It was a familiar scene, with one of my friends there. One in particular. He shall remain nameless for the moment.
One of my friends and I talk sex a lot. In fact, the topic of sex has come up several times with three of my friends. Young men in sobriety, they like their alcohol, but more importantly, they really like sex.
And in early sobriety, they tell us, quite wisely, DON’T GET INVOLVED in your first year. Some of my friends don’t listen.
You know, you tell someone not to touch the stove because it is hot, REALLY HOT … and what do they do ? They Touch the Stove and get BURNED.
Admitting quite easily that they heard you, but still felt compelled to see just how hot the stove was.
One of my friends was in this dream. Another human being who could seriously learn from a stint in a chastity device.
Because if you cannot have sex with either a man or a woman, all of my friends in the program are straight, so they want to have sex, but we tell them not to, for their own well being and the well being of any girl who they are going to end up breaking her heart … as is usual for many !
What can you advise them to do ? Masturbate. Slap the Monkey, Crank one out, you get the idea.
The problem with masturbation comes with the added and quite possibly a tangent addiction … PORN.
Men are not immune to Internet Porn availability. We talk about it often enough, so I can address it here.
Sex is an issue that comes along with alcohol and drug addiction. Porn is just as addictive as alcohol and drugs, and can lead one into seedy behavior, if you don’t nip it in the bud. This only works if whomever you are talking to, has enough courage to be honest in all their affairs.
Back to the dream: Anyways, my one friend, who is nameless at the moment, asks me what this little device does, and instead of telling him, what it does, We lock one on to his member … so he can feel what it does to him.
We all laugh gleefully.
The dream continues for a bit, and in the end, I am locked up, along with my friend, and the dream fades to black.
Which then leads me to get up and search my sellers for a chastity device. There are a few sellers, that I shop from, by the by. Mr. S, Fort Troff, and Priape (here in Montreal).
With the exchange being in the toilet, and knowing what the shipping charges are coming up from the U.S. I’m not going to spend over $200.00 CAD to buy internationally.
Looking closer to home, well, actually, just a few stops down on the Green Line, into “The Village” is our local, sex shop. In the village you can find sex, in all its forms. You can hit a Sauna, and find it. You can hit a bar, and find it, or you can go to a shop that specializes in all things SEX.
Little sex shops are scattered liberally all over the city. I usually shop at one a couple of blocks from home, just up the street, because I hate making the trip into the village, because that particular Metro Station is closed until June, and in minus -20c, I’m not walking from one end or the other, Papineau or Berri, into the village.
But it is warmer now than it has been all season.
I found me a device. It isn’t cheap, and I like that. I have had friends, in the past, who walked down this road, and made purchases either locally, or from international sellers, that ended up really becoming trouble for them.
If you’re gonna lock yourself up, better it be stainless steel or high grade plastic with genuine locks and keys. If you shop on the cheap, you will get what you pay for … CHEAP !
Some metal goods from other places, rust, fall apart, and caused serious medical issues for some of my friends. I’m not gonna go down that road myself.
So, are you sexual ? Do you like Sex ? Does this little piece titillate you?
It got my engine rolling.
Was the best damned dream I’ve ever had.